
Forgiveness - Your Agenda or Theirs?
I am often troubled by positive mantras that pop up every so often encouraging “forgiveness” as the path to emotional freedom from past hurts and traumas. For many people, forgiveness is simply not an option and despite the so-called alternative meaning within psychology - as no longer allowing someone or something to control our thoughts and actions (as opposed to the religious suggestion).... it's a practise that not only leads people to confuse forgiveness with healing b